The Dark Triad: Understanding Malignant Narcissism and Its Impact on Society
- Jason Gravelle
- Aug 1, 2024
- 4 min read
Updated: Nov 18, 2024

Characteristics of Malignant Narcissism
#Malignant #narcissists are distinguished by their grandiose sense of self-importance and an insatiable need for admiration. However, unlike more typical narcissists, they harbor a deep-seated need to dominate and control others, often resorting to #manipulative, #unethical and #illegal behavior to achieve their goals. Their lack of empathy makes them indifferent to the harm they cause, and they often take pleasure in the suffering of others. This combination of traits—narcissism, deceitfulness, and a ruthless pursuit of power—makes malignant narcissists especially harmful.
A #malignant #narcissist, or what is colloquially referred to as a #Dark #Triad Narcissist, is an individual who meets the criteria to be diagnosed as having Narcissistic Personality disorder, who also meets the diagnostic criteria of be a #psychopath and who possesses #Machiavelli beliefs. Often the label ‘narcissist’ is used interchangeably with the Narcissistic Personality Disorder diagnosis. However, people can be narcissist’s or exhibit narcissistic behaviours but are not severe enough to warrant a personality disorder diagnosis.
Psychopathy refers to the extreme lack of the ability to have empathy and inability to see others as human beings worthy of agency. Whereas, Machiavelli beliefs mean they feel they are entitled to do and have whatever they want by any means necessary - the end justifies the means. This combination of traits can make for an incredibly dangerous individual.
Harms and Abuses Inflicted on Others
Individuals with malignant narcissism are prone to inflicting various forms of abuse on those around them. This can include emotional manipulation, where they exploit the vulnerabilities of others to maintain control, often leading to long-term psychological trauma for the victims. They regularly use a technique called Narcissistic Triangulation to use others close to those who oppose them or resist their inappropriate conduct. They may also engage in gaslighting, a form of psychological abuse that causes victims to doubt their own perceptions and sanity. In more extreme cases, malignant narcissists may engage in physical or sexual abuse, driven by their desire to exert power and dominance.
The relationships that malignant narcissists form are typically toxic and one-sided, with the narcissist using others for their own gain without regard for the well-being of those they exploit. This can lead to a cycle of abuse, where victims are repeatedly manipulated, demeaned, and discarded once they are no longer useful.
"You are someone to be used – period. You're not a human who has needs. You're someone who is utile to them in whatever situation." - Dr. Les Carter
Because a malignant narcissist’s aspirations include wealth and power, their exploitation often includes severe financial abuses and unjust enrichment. Financial abuse is the act of controlling or exploiting someone’s financial resources, assets, or access to money, often to maintain power and control over them. Robbed of the resources to seek legal remedies victims often face an uphill battle in recovering what is theirs. Worse, if they choose to seek accountability in one way or another, they will often face threats, violence, stalking and harassment over an extended period of time to intimidate them.
As our lives have moved online in recent years, malignant narcissists have increasingly used hacking, doxxing, online harassment, and other cyber strategies to harm their victims and evade accountability. Often wealthy enough to hire criminals to carry out these attacks, even if they aren't capable themselves, they exploit the perceived anonymity of the digital world to target their victims with a reduced risk of being caught.
Societal Impact
The presence of malignant narcissists in positions of power can be particularly damaging to society. Their unethical behaviour, combined with a lack of accountability, can lead to widespread corruption, exploitation, and harm. In organisational settings, malignant narcissists may create toxic work environments, undermining the morale and well-being of employees while prioritising their own interests above the collective good. In political or leadership roles, their pursuit of personal power and disregard for ethical considerations can lead to destructive policies and actions that harm entire communities or even nations.
On a broader societal level, the influence of malignant narcissists can erode trust in institutions, foster environments of fear and insecurity, and contribute to the perpetuation of social injustices. Their actions can have a ripple effect, causing widespread damage that extends far beyond their immediate circle of influence.
“No matter how much you beg a narcissist to stop, they will push you past your limits until you snap, then when you do, they’ll stand back and act shocked, play the victim and claim you’re crazy.” – Lana Horowitz
Raising Awareness Is Key
Malignant narcissism represents a profound threat both to individuals and to society as a whole. The combination of narcissism, manipulativeness, and psychopathy creates a personality type that is not only self-destructive but also highly destructive to others. Understanding the traits and behaviours associated with malignant narcissism is crucial in identifying and mitigating the harm they can cause, both in personal relationships and within larger societal structures. By recognizing and addressing the dangers posed by malignant narcissists, steps can be taken to protect individuals and communities from the profound damage they are capable of inflicting.
“Narcissism is a society cancer we can’t Afford to ignore” – Julie L. Hall
Unfortunately, there is very little awareness of this pathology in society, among law enforcement, and even within our legal system. However, it is a problem that underlies many, if not most, of the social and economic issues we face. We've all heard the claim that many CEOs are psychopaths; whether or not that's true, the values, manipulations, and harms perpetuated by malignant narcissists profoundly shape the culture of business and governance. Others quickly learn they must adapt or be consumed. The mechanisms to hold them accountable do exist within the law; all that's needed to stop them is awareness and the will to act.
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